My Love
What is love anyway?
It's what's in your heart, that you constantly go back to. It's your true desires.
Not just a person, but an idea, a place, etc.
If you ignore this inner thought,
you are giving your own life away.
You have to pay attention to your deep desires, and ideas, then  explore and act upon them. They have the ability to take you on the healing journey. It's Self Honor.

Start by writing them down where you can look at it often. Begin to daily decide what you can do to reach your list.
Love is helping others.
As much as we need to help ourselves, being caring to other's problems and helping them solve them is a great way to gain happiness. 
Just keep tabs on the fact, that if someone starts to drag you down, you might need to let go of the relationship at the level it's at.
They will continue to find their way.
And it opens you up to help someone else....
Always remember the first things on your list that are important to you. 
Never go out of your way , if it is keeping you further from your own goals.

If you don't go after what you want. You'll never have it. If you don't ask, the answer is always no. If you don't step forward, you're always in the same place.
Nora Jones